So many of my clients are wildly competent everywhere else and quietly miserable in their erotic lives. On paper theyâre thriving, but their bodies feel checked out or on autopilot.
What I hear over and over is: âI donât even know what I want anymore. I just know this isnât it.â That confusion is a symptom of a world that never taught you how to listen to your erotic body.
For most of us, the issue doesnât even start in the bedroom. It shows up as overspending, overworking, over-giving. By the time sex is on the table, thereâs nothing left in the tank.
When pleasure is missing, everything else gets tightâmoney, patience with family, how you show up with friends, how you say yes or no. Itâs all connected to your nervous system and your erotic body, whether we name it that way or not.
If this is you, nothing is âwrongâ with you. Your body has been doing the best it can in a culture that asks you to be productive, polite, and pleasing, but never deeply pleasured. You donât need another script or a find pleasure quick trick. You need a place to slow down, feel whatâs actually happening in your body, and be guided toward what wants to wake up.
Thatâs why Iâm holding a 12âweek 1:1 container this season for a tiny group of folks whose erotic lives just havenât caught up with the rest of their success.
Itâs not a big group program. Itâs you and me, tracking your actual body, your actual nervous system, and building one reliable pathway back to your own pleasure by Spring.
We start with a 90âminute deep dive where we map your erotic landscape and name three pleasure goals for this season. Then we highlight one, so weâre not trying to fix your whole life at once. From there, we meet weekly for short, focused checkâinsâ15 minutes to stay honest, adjust your practices, and keep your body in the conversation. Once a month, we drop into a longer session to do the deeper somatic and erotic work.
Thereâs a closing session too, where we look at who youâve become, how your orgasm and pleasure have changed, and what you want to carry forward into the rest of the year.
By the end of the 12 weeks, my intention is that youâre not just âhaving more sexââyou actually understand how your orgasm works, what opens you, what shuts you down, and you can feel it in real time. I want you to have at least one clear, repeatable way to find your way back to your body when the world feels loud and demanding.
I am imagining 2026 differently. Does this sound like the way YOU want to start the new year?
This is the closest thing to my private work without the usual price tag. Itâs a seasonal container, 10 spots only, at $1500 for the full three months. If youâve been waiting for a moment to do this work before everything falls apartâor before you just decide âthis is as good as it getsââthis is that moment.
If youâre reading this and your body is quietly saying, âThatâs me,â Iâd love to share details and see if one of the ten spots fits what you need right now.
